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There are many decisions in life that can make people regret, ranging from career to matters of choosing a mate. But the decision to part with a couple more stressful and regret rather than changing jobs or drop out of school.
Researchers from Northwestern University revealed that the regret associated with romance and households more stressful than career affairs. This shows the importance of meeting the social needs, in this case to have a partner.
"Pain has, as a main motivation of human life is closely related to mental health," said Prof Neal
Roese, a psychologist at the same time marketing expert who led the study as quoted by Healthday.
According to Prof Roese, cracking and breaking household romance will disturb the sense of belonging which is the basic instinct of man. The people will be susceptible to stress when he realized that his most valuable possessions are gone.
As with the affairs of work. Although humans can have a career, but the stress experienced when losing a job like will not be as heavy as when it had to give up your lover or ex-wife went moreover already belong to someone else.
In this study, Prof Roese and his team did an experiment with five times the number of participants varies between 108-549 people from various states in the United States. The fifth experiment was conducted to measure the level of regret over a decision that is considered wrong.
The results showed that decisions involving social relationships such as romance and more households regretted by the participants. Nonsocial decisions such as changing jobs or even drop-out (DO) college also often trigger stress and regret, but the number was losing a lot compared to the breakup.
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