This habit can be hindering your success


  So many external factors that can hold you to reach the ladder of success. But, you know, that the habits you are doing it can be a major limiting factor in achieving what you want.
So what actually habits you should avoid in order to be successful? As reported from BusinessInsider, here are some habits that you should not do

1. Following the opinion 

In the 1950s, psychologist Solomon Asch conducted a study that showed that an individual tends to agree with the opinion of the local community, even when they know that that opinion is actually wrong.

In experiments they make, participants are invited to choose one of the three lines is provided which according to them the longest. Without their knowledge, the participants have been surrounded by people who have previously requested to appoint the wrong line.

The results of the experiment was shown that participants tended to agree with the opinion of the local community.

One lesson that can be drawn is, do not easily agree with the opinion about. If you have other thoughts, it never hurts to express opinions that you have rather than just follow the majority opinion.

2. The Perfectionist

Perfectionist attitude indeed sometimes be a good nature. But in reality, the attitude that always want to get the perfect result can reduce your chances for success.

According to the psychologist, Alice Boyess, perfectionists tend to use all the powers at their disposal until they really feel tired. It was continued by making it difficult to continue the work they are supposed to solve.


3. Fear of success

Psychologist Abraham Maslow put out a term called "Jonah complex" to describe the fear of someone going failure to unleash the potential that they have. Usually this happens when you start a new career or get a promotion to a professional position.

Perhaps you are afraid of new obligations that you need to bear, or you fear you can not imagine yourself as someone who has a great potential.

To overcome this, it is necessary for you to know where this fear comes from. For example, maybe it comes from the opinion of friends or family you said that you did not fit in that position.

If the opinion of people around haunt you, try to fight it with positive thinking and recall all the successful accomplishment you have achieved so far.

4. Procrastination.

These properties not only shows that you have lazy nature. In fact, procrastination sometimes work resulting from feelings of anger or guilt.

For example, The Harvard Business Review shows one example of the attitude that is performed by a computer expert who did not receive the increase in job positions. This made the people angry and eventually procrastinate she could have complete earlier.

To fight against nature to procrastinate resulting from feelings of anger, you can try to calm yourself from the negative thoughts. Once quiet, you can then try to find a way out of what you should do.

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